To work efficiently and enjoy the work in offices, we require a friendly and courteous working environment. Employees at any level or post are required to be polite and interactive with other colleagues, co-workers, clients. While working for many years together at the same place many people become friends and share their so many professional as we as personal things.
But, there is a thin line among every relationship that should not be crossed as that may hurt you any time. The time changes and getting closer to the colleagues can hurt you in future if any professional dispute may occur. Some specific things that you should not share with other employees are -
Excessive expression of yourself
You might have achieved a lot of things in your life. Expressing it once to motivate others is fine. But, expressing it in every talk or repeating several times can decrease your respect in the eyes of the person you are talking. No one likes to hear the same records again and again. Hence, stop showing off until not asked or required.
Do not express negativity about other to anyone
If you have any problem with any of your colleague, have a direct conversation instead of speaking behind his back to others. This will make the situations worse. Do not say anything about other without thinking as your words can become a weapon against you.
Do not cry about your health issues every day
Many people suffer from various health issues. But, discussing again and again with the co-workers sitting next to your office chair can make them feel negative for you. Their mentality for you may change because of your this behaviour. If you need help ask politely in a proper way.
Do not discuss the pay
Discussing the payouts is not a good in work premises. Many people do not like to discuss their salary and money matter with others and by forcing them to do so, you are hurting your image.
Do not disclose relationship problems
You might be depressed with your relationship problems, but that should be only your cup of tea. Do not let other have fun over your conditions. Keep the things away from your professional life.